Stop Commenting on Your Coworker’s Lunch — Body Shaming Keep your opinions on my plate to yourself. Maybe you’ve heard it at the Thanksgiving table, when grandma asks if you really need that second helping. Maybe your kid has come home from school crying after their classmates made fun of their lunch. Maybe you were that kid. Commentary on what other people are eating isn’t just rude, it can be downright damaging. Here’s why it’s time to find something else to talk about.